论爱情

北欧绿色邮报网情感专家  陈雪霏

什么是爱情?废话,谁不知道什么是爱情?不一定。真正的爱情是需要时间的。有一位韩国女孩说过,爱情,就是那种象熬中药一样熬出来的。是的。有时候,两个人相见可能感觉很好,但不一定马上就好的不得了。有可能很好,但因为什么原因就是到不了一起。于是,人们就需要耐心等待。

有了时间考验的爱情才可以长久。有的人会说,不在乎长久,只想一时拥有。但我想人的感情是有限量的。给了这个人,就不能给那个人。有时,感情如果不小心浪费掉了,以后恐怕就很难再产生感情了。

真的。感情是通过时间来磨练的。当然,过去讲的真金不怕火炼,你使劲考验一个人,也是不对的。人都是脆弱的,不可能那么容易被历练。人也是不太容易能抵制住诱惑的,因此,最好不要创造这样的机会。一定要顺其自然。

感情是不应该浪费的。因为感情也是有量的,就象电灯里的电一样,浪费了,就没有了。因此,如果有了感情,就应该珍惜。

人世间确实有很多隔骇,例如,意识形态,例如政治制度,例如宗教信仰,这一切都影响我们的爱情观。因此,西方讲究自由。但是,如果自由过度了,也不一定是好事。如何能够在相互平等的基础上恋爱是一门学问,也只有在相互平等,相互尊重的基础上,才能产生爱情。否则,感情也不会产生。人只有在安全的基础上,温饱的基础上,才能产生真正的爱情。否则,难免都是互相利用。当然也可以是互相理解。

Video: Birgit Nilsson Prize winner Nina Stemme: I was a coward when I was 10 or 11

By Xuefei Chen Axelsson

STOCKHOLM, Oct. 12(Greenpost) — Nina Stemme, Birgit Nilsson Prize winner held a press conference today and said she was a coward when she was 10 or 11 years old because she wanted to be a musician then, but she dared not because she was afraid of failure.

Stemme is not only a great singer, she is almost a philosopher because her motto is Hurry slowly.

She is also a kind of linguist and speaks perfect English with perfect voice.

She told us about her childhood and about her experience in voice training. She said after all, it was she who should be on the stage in the end, so she must train herself hard and well.

今日头条:霓娜.斯泰莫荣膺2018比基特.尼尔松奖-西洋歌剧最高奖

北欧绿色邮报网报道(记者陈雪霏)– 瑞典著名女高音歌唱家霓娜.斯泰莫11日晚在瑞典皇家歌剧院从瑞典国王卡尔.十六世古斯塔夫手中接过2018 比基特.尼尔松奖,西洋歌剧最高奖,堪称古典音乐方面的诺贝尔奖。奖金一百万美元,相当于900万克朗,近700万人民币元。

The Birgit Nilsson Prize

该奖是由瑞典著名已故女高音歌唱家比基特.尼尔松创立的基金会设立的。比基塔.尼尔松于1918年出生于瑞典南部的斯哥纳地区。从小就有音乐天赋。同时,酷爱古典音乐。歌唱魏格纳歌剧,普契尼歌剧图兰朵等上百首歌剧。2005年87岁去世前决定以自己的名字创立基金会,同时,留下遗嘱,第一个获得比基塔.尼尔松奖的人是意大利著名男高音歌唱家多明哥。该奖在2009年实现首发式,确实奖给了多明哥。多明哥曾经和尼尔松同台演唱。

The Birgit Nilsson Prize

霓娜.斯泰莫是首位获得该奖的瑞典歌唱家。这是第四次颁奖。斯泰纳获奖的理由是她很好地诠释了作曲家的意图,同时极大地传承并传播了古典音乐。她在传播古典歌剧方面做出了巨大贡献,因此符合基金会的标准。

The Birgit Nilsson Prize

斯泰莫曾经在纽约,法国,意大利,维也纳和伦敦和斯德哥尔摩等著名皇家歌剧院演出过,成为国际上著名的女高音歌唱家。瑞典国王和王后曾经三次观看她的演出。

颁奖前,瑞典皇家交响乐团和著名男高音歌唱家BrynTerfel演唱了魏格纳歌剧。 女高音歌唱家克里斯蒂娜.尼尔松也进行了演唱。

The Birgit Nilsson Prize

颁奖仪式上,多明哥还特意发来视频祝贺。

11日晚,1000多各界名流穿着晚礼服走上红地毯出席了颁奖仪式。

霓娜.斯泰莫12日举办了记者招待会上。在招待会上,北欧绿色邮报网记者首先提问,让她讲讲自己的童年。

斯泰莫说,她的父母都是大学毕业。但是,她是家中第一位艺术家音乐家。她小时候和其他孩子一样,在上学的同时,也加入了一个合唱团,她尝试了各种乐器,小提琴,钢琴等都学过。她各科学习成绩都不错,因为她学习很刻苦。她说她刻苦的原因是她懂得只要她努力学习,她就可以实现她自己的愿望。但是,她也承认,她小时候其实也是个胆小鬼。因为本来在10,11岁的时候,她就很喜欢歌剧了,想直接学习音乐,但是,她不敢,因为她害怕失败。所以,她学习音乐的同时,她也上了大学,而且学的是商业经济。但是,最终她还是选择音乐作为她的专业了。

斯泰莫坦言,她其实只参加过两次比赛,她参加比赛的原因就是想知道自己到底是在什么水平上,但结果,她都表现非常好。她说,其实,每次比赛,她也都是战战兢兢,都是充分准备,不打无准备之仗。

她说,她小的时候就很努力,以后也是一直都非常努力。她也很专注。比如说,她在伦敦演出的时候,间歇时间,她确实让自己休息,做做瑜伽,放松,然后,再上舞台。

当她出名以后,邀请她演出的人越来越多。但她坚持一个原则。

她著名的名言是要尽快让自己慢下来(Hurry slowly)。她说,她知道人们都会记住她,但是,有时她发现人们给她的任务太急促,项目太庞大。因此,她创立了自己的工作哲学。该说不的时候,必须说不。

12日,人们参观了比基特.尼尔松博物馆,了解了有关尼尔松的故事。据介绍,尼尔松是个热情奔放的艺术家,对业务精益求精,最开始来斯德哥尔摩歌剧院演出时与伴奏员不和,几乎想跳河自杀。但是,后来,她克服一切困难,成为脍炙人口的著名艺术家。她第一次在皇家歌剧院演出是在1946年10月9日。

博物馆展出了她的服装,雕像和她的演出历史。

瑞典皇家歌剧院是由瑞典国王古斯塔夫三世在1773年创立的,一开始有948个座位。到1898年建成现在这样的歌剧院有1200个座位。

The Birgit Nilsson Prize

比基特.尼尔松基金会会长鲁波特.莱师教授主持新闻发布会,并在11晚的颁奖仪式上发表开幕词和闭幕词。

图文陈雪霏(颁奖仪式图片为新闻图片由基金会提供)

Nina Stemme receives her Birgit Nilsson Prize from the King

By Xuefei Chen Axelsson

STOCKHOLM, Oct. 12(Greenpost)– Swedish born top Soprano Nina Stemme received her Birgit Nilsson Prize from the hands of the Swedish King Carl XVI Gustaf in the Royal Opera House in Stockholm last night.

The Birgit Nilsson Prize press photo.

Queen Silvia and about 1000 guests including journalists attended the awarding ceremony.  With the red carpet, many prominent figures wear beautiful dress attending the ceremony.

Queen Silvia, King Carl, Stemme and Reisch. press photo. 

After the moving performance of Bryn Terfel of Wagner The Flying Dutchman and Birgitta Svenden’s Laudatio,  Mary BEth Peil announced the prize presentation.

Internationally famous Stemme is in great demand worldwide. She is a frequent guest at the Metropolitan Opera in New York, La Scala in Milan, Wiener Staatsoper, Opera Bastille in Paris and the Royal Opera Houses in London and Stockholm, to name just a few. As a dramatic soprano, Nina Stemme has continued the great tradition of Kirsten Flagstad and Birgit Nilsson.

She has been celebrated for her roles as Wagner’s Isolde, Brünnhilde and Kundry; Strauss’ Salome and Elektra; as well as Puccini’s Turandot and Fanciulla.

Having received many international awards over the years, Nina Stemme was recognized as the 2018 Birgit Nilsson Prize recipient for her interpretations of the dramatic soprano repertoire with her respect for the composer’s intentions, her tireless dedication to the dramatic soprano repertoire, and for being a great Wagnerian soprano of today.

The Birgit Nilsson Prize press photo. 

Then Stemme received the prize from his Majesty King Carl XVI Gustaf.

press photo.  Domingo.

Placido Domingo, Birgit Nilsson Prize Recipient 2009 sent a video congratulation.

On Friday,  Stemme met journalists at a press conference in the Royal Opera House in Stockholm again.

Nina Stemme at press conference. Photo by Xuefei Chen Axelsson. 

Answering a question by Greenpost.se,  Stemme tells us about her childhood.

“I grew up in Stockholm, my parents got to study at university. As a child, I went to a choir in addition to school. I was good at school because I worked hard. I worked hard because I knew that if I worked hard, I can go where I like to go. But I was a coward, I wanted to learn opera when I was 10 or 11 years old, but I dare not because I was afraid of failure.” said Stemme.

She said she tried a little bit of everything, such as playing violin and piano, going to concerts and operas.  But she was kind of well grounded in many ways, she even went to university to study business and economics, but later still music and opera took over.

She has performed in almost all the famous opera houses in the world and become a well-known singer.

But she insists on her philosophy of hurry slowly meaning that she would say no if she thinks the project is too soon or too big. She did what she promised but she would not promise if she couldn’t manage.

In giving advice to young people, she said it is all about music, but not just competition.  It is just a test to see where you are.

 Birgit’s costumes.  Photo by Xuefei Chen Axelsson.

Earlier the press was also taken to have a round of Birgit Nilsson’s museum.

It showed a lot of costumes Birgit Nilsson used to wear and how she started her career.  Born in 1918, Birgit Nilsson came from Skane and she was able to sing very early.

With a strong mind, she said she was almost wanting to commit suicide when she first came to Stockholm and performed in the Opera House.

But later, she had carried out over 40 years of soprano career. Her husband was a business man and opened many restaurants.  Before she came to the end of her career, she decided to establish the Birgit Nilsson Foundation to award those who made great contributions to classical music.  She also left a will to give the first Birgit Nilsson prize to Placido Domingo who used to sing together with her.  This will was carried out in 2009 when the first prize was issued.

Professor Reisch.  Photo by Xuefei Chen Axelsson.

Press photo.

Professor Rutbert Reisch, President of Birgit Nilsson Foundation hosted the press conference and he also spoke at the awarding ceremony.